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Andrew Cook's avatar

Proud of you for taking a stand in responding back. That's not an easy thing to do, but this is well-written. Your broader perspective and lived experiences make you a much more qualified expert on the subject IMO!

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Needing a lactic very badly's avatar

Her response was so…. patronizing. I’m curious what made you want to write to her in the first place?

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Joe's avatar

“Monogamous people feel judged for enjoying the norm” 🤔

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kim of the internet's avatar

UGH I prickled at that exact place you did (right around “greediness”). These things never exist in a vacuum + to ignore the power dynamics at play in the context feels deeply unhelpful. Thx for sharing your heart and wisdom with us ❤️‍🔥

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